So yes you want men to pursue you, and if you are confident this will naturally happen, but you don’t want to intentionally get him to chase you because this is just neediness all dressed up.
guys after Craig and let me tell you, whenever I’ve been overly available I went through that same cycle.
They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.
By that, I mean fill your life with fun, meaningful activities.
But neediness is not gender-specific – guys make the mistake of being “needy” too!
So I want you to know that I am putting this out there to help and inspire everyone to have more dating success, to point fingers. ” and pretty much any sentence that begins with ‘why didn’t you,’ it’s like nails on a chalkboard.You’re the prize, you’re the catch, you’re the most amazing girl to ever give him the time of day, your time is precious and he will do whatever he has to in order to make sure he gets to stay in your charmed world.I hope this sheds some light on the whole game conundrum.When your happiness is rooted in all sorts of things, not just him, you will never have to watch what you say or do for fear of coming off as needy because you will never be needy.MORE: A Guy’s Take on Neediness I met this guy years ago, let’s call him Craig.When you bend over backward to please a man, you’re not really placing a high value on yourself and he doesn’t really have to do much work to land you.