All you are really trying to figure out on the speed date is whether the two of you have something in common and if you would be able to carry out a conversation that lasts longer than four minutes.
That is exactly what the focus of a speed dating session should be.
Of course you want to find out if you could be with the person for a long run, but it is best to keep the 'big question' about the ex's or children for the subsequent dates.
There’s a great website dedicated to what to talk about online dating called talk about online dating sites.
I really recommend downloading their free e Book which contains over 100 things you can ask on an online dating site.
For me it says your either to lazy to write to me properly, or, you don’t know what to ask.
OK so I make it sound simple enough, then what should you ask ?
Finding questions to ask is pretty straight forward.
I did a very quick search on the most popular threads from a very well recognised girls magazine website. After I had a list I sent different emails out to calibrate what worked and what didn’t.
BUT, you’re worried that you might run out of things to say! Here are four foolproof Dating with Dignity-approved conversation boosters to make your crush swoon (or at least contribute to the conversation and have a great time with you! If you both like rock climbing, ask him about the last trip he went on or the gym where he climbs.