I was careful enough to follow all the cancellation steps very closely and in the end I only spent 2.99 Lesson learned!!!!
I am 55 and fed up with these so called sites where you can always meet a woman.
Since I left my husband I have been unable to do a number of things -- the most frustrating lost skill is the ability to date.
And of course I can't even talk about my ex, even if the past nine years of my life was living and working with him!
Then there are the crazy games of when to text, email or call, when to answer immediately, when to act interested or disinterested and when to completely blow them off.
I have made failed attempts of hooking up with partners for something casual, but every time the results have been disastrous.
For the most part I am let down by an experience that was supposed to be fun, and which ends up making my life more complicated.
• You are supposed to be on call to wait for the opportunity to see him • Don't reveal too much about yourself, but listen to him complain • Don't expect commitment, or exclusivity • Don't expect any emotional bonding • Don't expect much effort on his part to impress you • Don't expect him to make you feel important in his life Not exactly what I call fun, but again everyone is different and for some people this situation is ideal.
What I find frustrating is that if you really want to get to know a guy first before having sex with him, it seems like there is no end to the women who will jump into bed with them.I would also be curious if such sites exists were people doesn't get fooled ... As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half.As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles.I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around. ALL sex dating sites are scams, usually run from America. If you want to meet a partner stay away from any site that offers members wanting just sex. Guys/Girls if its too good to be true ITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, no woman/guy with half a brain would fall for that, I guess I have less than half a brain since I decided to spend the full 2.99 for a 3 day membership at , I quickly realized the answers were computer generated responses to my questions LOL - I should know better!!!!to make matters worse try cancelling the repeat charges in the small print!!!!I had one man who kept calling me for months, another who rudely told me about his other women -- and yes there is a polite way to handle this -- and yet another who had a mild breakdown in my apartment about how he couldn't handle the "gray area".