Men Are Insecure Many ladies say that if they were guys they'd have a field day with women.
When a guy approaches a woman he's attracted to, it shows.
This gives women the upper hand and makes a guy both nervous and excited, but women smell fear like wild animals and can shoot guys down when they don’t exude self-confidence.
“We found that in successful dates women talked most about themselves and men talked about women more and were more supportive and sympathetic about a women’s problems.” Men who are wondering if a date is going well should also pay close attention to the pitch of a woman’s voice.
If she is interested her pitch is likely to vary and her voice becomes lighter, higher and softer. In contrast, women should look out for their date teasing them.
They were then asked to rate on a scale of one to 10 whether they thought each person was awkward, friendly, flirtatious or assertive, and the answers compared to the language used by each participant.
From the data the team were able to work out the most successful speech strategies for dating.
'Instead of just saying, 'I write a blog,' name the blog and encourage people to check it out,' High says. People create profiles for networking, advancement, and business opportunities, through sites such as the business-oriented social networking service Linked In.
If you can name something or provide people with a link to get there, then do it.
“When it comes to speed dating the women are the deciders,” said Dan Jurafsky, professor of linguistics and computer science at Stanford University.
“In the main, they do say that women are more selective so we can imagine that the woman is going to be the more empowered party.
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