It shouldn’t be too difficult though, as these cheesy people are usually pretty scared of you, and only have eyes for their “prey”, Japanese people. If you’re dating someone who has lived in the West, that mitigates it somewhat.But I don’t think “cultural differences” are a good excuse for not dating in Japan.I was talking about it with a friend when she suddenly told me not to hold my breath because Native American guys dont like white girls. When I told her of my heratige she said it MIGHT make a differece but probably not because I didnt look the part.
I dont look on bit of it though, no matter how much I wish I did.
I grew up clinging to anything connected with this part of my that I could, secretly.
That can be really difficult for us Westerners who value verbal communication.
When communication with the second guy stopped, I didn’t actually know something was wrong. My single clue was at the end of the date where he didn’t hug me like usual. ) Then it’s up to you to decide whether you care or not. I plan to be here for another year at least, and it that time, especially as my Japanese improves, I’m sure I’ll have more stories to tell.
I think there is more of, for lack of a better word, a “demand” for white women, particularly with blond hair and blue eyes. However, I’ve been hit on/flirted with by Japanese men, so yes some do. So when he called communication was pretty much impossible, as we had said all the basic stuff when we met, so there was really no way that could go anywhere.
I think straight men in general find women in general attractive, and if you’re an attractive woman men will be attracted to your feminine charms, no matter what race or colour you are. We met at a club and I gave him my number, but his English level was very low, and my Japanese was even lower.
He married a white woman and their children married white and so on until me.
I am 1/8 Tsalagi and I fell more connected with that part of my heratige than any other in my blood.
When two people really like each other you can get over it.